Why do mothers fight the fathers who want to be involved but break out the red carpet for the absentee dads? It seems that the person who is seeking love, time and communications in the relationship is the chaser and the person who doesn’t want anything to do with the relationship is the runner. Time and time again you will see this all but to familiar situation; example A, a deadbeat dad that don’t come around but every blue moon if that, he don’t offer any moral support for the poor kid just donate some sperm and out the kid(s) life he goes, in most cases you better not say anything negative about this man in the presents of the mother are you will have death match hell battle to pay with your life, whenever he does show up he will get to see his kids with no arguing and fighting a plate of hot food if its dinner time and a cold beer to wash it down with and the worst that may happen is someone might roll their eyes are turn they lip up and that’s about it they will allow this guy to give a whole heap of excuses for being a piss poor man and back out of Jr. life he goes but for the dad who wants to be a father ; example B, Daddy bashing is always allowed you can talk bad about this guy in front of the mother while the kids are present this poor fellow don’t get any of the credit that is rightfully due, he has to fight just to see his kids most of the time ending up in a court room battle no matter what he does good for his kid(s) it’s never good enough the kids are treated like a game of soccer by the mother ,”it’s my ball so I make all the rules buddy and now I’m going home and locking the door and I will see you next time I feel like playing this stupid game again see ya!”
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